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Beth T (BethOfAus)'s avatar

We are from such different worlds! I’m old. There have always been teetotallers - those of us who don’t drink. We just never talked about it much. All the runners might leave the party early and head off to bed, but yes the sharing of these options on social media these days at least reminds people that abstaining is a socially acceptable option.

I think we generally end up socialising with those who have compatible tastes. It just takes one bad experience with a handsy drunk, or one horrendous hangover and we do make these little decisions. I guess there’s a time period in life when we do what we think our peers expect of us, but hopefully we live long enough to realise that the only opinions that matter are of those we actually respect.

Social media is a pretty nasty place from my perspective, as an oldie, so I steer clear. I know my online safe spaces and I stick to them and give the other places a wide berth. It must be so hard being young these days. Sigh...

Anyway, Happy New Year dear Sarah. I wish you and your loved ones all the best for the year ahead. Enjoy your wedding and your writing and life in general. Sending heaps of hugs and best wishes. 🤗🤗😘

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Syd's avatar

Happy New Year, Sarah!! Love this and definitely am seeing most of these trends show up in my life too.

For the rise in sobriety, I’d also add that an increase in accessibility to sophisticated non-alcoholic options is helping the trend. Sort of a chicken or the egg situation: interest in not drinking is breading more non alcoholic options which is breading more interest in not drinking and so on.

AND I think gen Z’s lack of interest in drinking + their increasing economic influence plays a big role too, which I suspect is the result of a combination of factors, but one of the big ones is the way they socialized in more intimate settings during COVID as opposed to big house parties or things of the like.

Thank you again for this, Sarah!! Wishing you a lovely, joyful 2024 :)

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