making the decision right

how to build a life you don't want to escape

When I fell in love, I texted my friend who writes a dating column. We celebrated together. I confessed that the only sad thing about falling in love is that I’ll never be a NYC hot single (weep!)

Then she asked me if I thought it was random. Is love just a game of odds? 

This question stayed with me for days. 

What made this relationship different? 

Is lov…